Another entry on the "wish I had liked it better" list, which is pretty long this year. I was tempted to grab the Kindle edition thanks to Iona Italia's long review at Quillette a couple months back. I think I should have read her review more critically before I sent my $10.49 off to Amazon.
The author, Derren Brown, is apparently very famous in England.
It's long, 491 pages of main text in the print version. Affer a pretty decent beginning, I found it a slog, I kept finding things to do other than reading it. Putting it off until bedtime reading, and pretty much immediately dozing off.
But that's me. You could like it better. Most of the reviews I've seen are very complimentary.
Things start off well, with a debunking of a couple flavors of popular self-help nostrums. And there's a whirlwind tour of the past 2000 years or so of philosophy and psychology, concentrating on stoicism, the philosophy closest to Brown's heart. (He has some minor criticisms later in the book.)
But most of the book is a rambling, not particularly coherent, self-help text, full of Brown's advice on how to pursue happiness. Near the end, Brown lays out five numbered bits of advice, one paragraph each. I'll just quote the first sentence of each:
- If you have something to "come out" about, come out.
- You'll never regret falling in love.
- If you work in a creative field, and you are faced with a choice of doing a job for the money or doing a job for the fun of it, take the fun one whenever you can.
- Don't be a dick.
- Look at what takes up your time and see what is worth doing and what is not.
Fine. I might have found these bromides insightful when I was (say) sixteen in Omaha. Now they just seem like clichés, sorry.
Brown devotes an entire chapter to issues of fame. about 40 print pages. Mostly, whether to pursue it; it's not all it's cracked up to be. But also how to deal with fame once you attain it. Might be useful to the 0.01% of the population in that boat.
On page 443, part of his (very) long musings about death:
Dying (and taxes, according to Woody Allen) is something we all must face.
Um. I know he's a Brit, but has Brown never heard of Ben Franklin? And, according to Wikipedia, this observation wasn't even original with Ben! But a decent editing job would have caught the misattribution. Also would have caught the misuse of "begs the question" on page 214.